If the idea of a slow, intentional day sounds like your perfect way to get married, then this guide on 5 Tips for Planning Your Dream Minnesota Elopement is for you. Not everyone wants a big wedding. Some couples want something quieter and more meaningful, and that feels more authentic.
As a wedding photographer, I am here to support whatever makes your wedding day perfect for you.
I think every wedding is beautiful, whether you choose to have a big affair or an intimate day just the two of you. But I specifically want to give some tips and tricks to those of you dreaming up a magical “micro wedding” or elopement.
5 Tips for Planning Your Dream Minnesota Elopement
1. Choose your photographer and “venue” first
If you are flexible with dates, start with your photographer and ceremony location. This helps you lock in the vibe and environment you want. It also ensures you have the documentary coverage that will help you relive every part of your day. Whether you picture a cozy Airbnb or a quiet overlook at sunrise, this step builds the foundation.

2. Look into permits and permissions
Minnesota has so many beautiful state parks and public lands, but each comes with its own rules. Some locations require permits for ceremonies or portraits. Others have limits on group sizes or available hours. If you are getting married at an Airbnb, things are usually simple. If you are planning a state park elopement, make sure to check the details early. I’m always happy to help my couples navigate the logistics in the planning process. I’m here as a resource for you!
3. Decide which traditions feel true to you
Elopements create space for personal traditions. You can get ready together while your favorite vinyl plays. Or maybe you want to have a first look. You can cut a cake after saying I do. Or maybe you skip it all and order pizza on the shore with your friends after your ceremony. Think through what feels meaningful. Keep what you love. Let go of what you don’t. You truly make the rules.

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4. Include an activity you enjoy doing together
Your elopement can feel like the best parts of your favorite vacation. Are you hikers? Bring your boots. Do you love music? Play a song together. Maybe you enjoy puzzles or games. Quiet downtime can be a beautiful part of the day. Build in something that feels like “you” as a couple.
5. Book an officiant
Even if you are planning something intimate, you will still need someone who can legally marry you. You can hire an officiant or have a friend get certified. Keeping the ceremony personal can make the day feel even more special. If you have questions, Minnesota’s guidelines are simple to follow, and you can see them all here.

Eloping is just such an intentional way to begin a marriage. It gives you space to breathe, be present, and create memories that feel honest and grounded. If you keep these 5 Tips for Planning Your Dream Minnesota Elopement in mind, you’ll end up building a day that reflects your love in the most meaningful way. I’d be honored to be your photographer. You can reach out for more info here.

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